Well, it got me. Covid has wrapped its evil claws around my body, inside and out. It has stolen my breath, attacked my muscles and joints with sharp teeth, and permeated my soul with a sense of hopelessness. However, I come from generations of women who won’t be beaten down, so instead I’m turning my thoughts to writing to escape this feeling of dread. I have a sense that may be Covid has been tampering with my logical thoughts and so apologies if this writing isn’t well constructed or doesn’t make sense. It will go onto my blog as a record of what is an event, a massive event, for me and my poor body (which has been through a great deal in the nearly 60 years I have been in residence). Short bursts is all I have energy for at the moment…excuse me…it is likely this writing will emerge gradually over days before being published.
I have been trying to avoid Covid’s gaze for the last almost 18 months working mostly from home. I have been dutiful in following the often unclear, muddy guidance from government. In the last academic year I learned the skill of teaching online, and by September 2021 I was good at it – I know because many of my students told me. However despite this, they complained often about wanting and needing face-to-face contact. My home became my workplace and it was me who turned a room in my house into an office. It was me who paid the energy bills, the broadband and for the necessary consumables such as printer ink and paper. Workload increased significantly for many reasons beyond my control, but gradually I worked out how to lock the door on my workspace in order to preserve some sort of manageable boundary between work and home life. Yet still I knew I worked far longer hours than I was paid for. Double whammy…I was the one paying for working from home and longer hours. I made that choice for my students though and it was a conscious choice…even if it was Hobson’s. It was a strangely lonely experience working from home, as all work relationships became virtual and yet all of these people were entering my personal space sometimes unbidden. I stuck to each lockdown and like many missed family and friends acutely, but I was convinced it was for the best and the price I paid to keep myself, my friends, and my family safe.
So when my employer decided that we would return to face-to-face teaching in October 2021, I sat with pen and paper to construct a pros and cons list, and set to completing their risk assessment which I knew would, as before, put me in a higher category than the average. In the end though, the choice was mine alone, if influenced by the mitigations I was told were being put in place. I was reassured that teaching would be in rooms which allowed for 2 metre (later 1m) distancing, that in rooms where CO2 monitors were in place students would be required to wear face coverings and be encouraged to wear them whilst indoors. Mobile CO2 monitors would be used periodically in other teaching rooms. I was told that hygiene was to be exemplary. In the end the clincher for the decision for me returning to face to face teaching was the students – because they, and to a certain extent, I, needed human connection. I decided to return with the proviso that as soon as I felt unsafe I would move to online teaching. I had been double-jabbed and that added some weight to my decision. Choice made.
My face masks and I became one over the following months. I found that often I would remind students to put on their masks whilst in teaching rooms, but as soon as they had left the room, for the most part, their face covering would be removed. I got into the habit of opening windows and wiping down surfaces when I entered or left a teaching space. Shortly into term all space restrictions were lifted to normal occupancy. Occasionally a CO2 monitor would warn me that the room needed more ventilation, or a person with a mobile monitor would demand doors be open too. I found it difficult to teach in a mask, and instead moved to wearing a transparent visor which my employer provided. I knew that the visor provided more protection to the students in front of me, than personal protection but this was offered and I took it up, as a compromise. Students complained about the cold rooms as windows were open, so the heating was turned up. With my habitual teaching style of constant movement and gesture I soon found that I would sweat with the heat, and the visor would fog, making me uncomfortable. Mask or visor? I made that choice but it was always one or the other. As the term progressed, I remembered how much I enjoyed teaching face to face, but how much physical, mental and emotional energy I gave in that endeavour and more of the latter with the threat of Covid staring over our shoulders. I was exhausted everyday, but it felt like some sort of normality after over a year of working alone.
As I moved between teaching rooms I passed groups of students in corridors and communal spaces laughing, joking and sharing. I was torn – I loved to hear the return of the buzz of human connection to the campus. However, I winced as I saw the closeness of that contact, the vast majority of faces maskless. It was like each person was relieved to no longer be living under the shadow of Covid that had dictated their existence for the previous year. It was as if, as one, the people before me were sticking their fingers in their ears, and their heads in the sand, to pretend there was nothing to worry about. It sometimes felt like only I could see that big elephant ‘Covid’ in the room every time I passed through the shared spaces – giggling with evil joy as people hugged or kissed, or shared food and drink. That was their choice.
I however, wanted to cry each time I had to thread my way through those crowds, or when I was in a lift and groups of laughing students clambered in, unaware of me pushing myself into a corner to ineffectively avoid their maskless faces and possible infection from their laughing breath. I flagged my concerns with those managing me, who responded with kindness and reassurance that the message about Covid awareness had been emailed to every staff and student member. I understand that everyone of course had to make their own choice, all that could be done in enabling people to understand that they had a choice, had been done. Decisions were left in the hands of each individual.
I think that somewhere along the line I lost sight of my personal risk assessment, and what I had set myself as the bottom line – that if I felt unsafe I would move to teaching online. I had felt unsafe for weeks if I am honest to myself, but I ignored my inner voice. I let myself believe the discourse that ‘Covid awareness’ was enough. I told myself the lie that students would suffer if I moved back to online teaching. I obtained my ‘red lanyard’ which indicated that I wanted people to respect my personal space because of the threat of Covid. Did people take note of it? I certainly didn’t notice any change in people’s behaviours around me. However, I sucked up the discourse that awareness, and of course a red lanyard, would save me from infection.
Last week I was pleased to be asked to teach a session on race and ethnicity, and my passion for amplifying the message of anti-racism drove me. I did a dynamic risk assessment. It was a large room. Windows and doors were open and ventilation was good. The front rows of students were wearing face coverings (although not all). I started to teach whilst wearing my visor, but I became hot, and perhaps because of the emotive subject I felt the visor was a barrier, rather than a safety device, so I removed it whilst speaking. A moment of foolishness perhaps, but my choice. I only replaced my mask when I stopped talking. The following day I had a text from a colleague who had shared the same space, saying that she had tested positive for Covid. She had constantly worn her mask or visor during the session. She had respected my personal space. Yet here I am, lying in bed with Covid as my companion.
Do I think she was the source of my infection? No, I honestly don’t, although some may wish to point a finger there to make it easier to reconcile, or blame my 2 hours of being unmasked in a ventilated room. Others around me have come down with Covid this week, and in previous weeks. Anyone of them might have been the source… or not. Covid is still everywhere despite how much we wish it wasn’t, and denial doesn’t change that fact. I blame no one. The cause of my infection has been fear and complacency: mine and every other person who inhabit the space I work in. I mention only my work space because I had made a conscious choice after the summer not to go to busy social spaces which take place indoors – therefore I am 99% sure that my infection has come from work, as I have been nowhere else. I have made some poor personal choices – although perhaps fewer in comparison to others. The choices I have made have never just been for me, but as a conscious attempt to protect others. I hope upon hope that more people will do the same, because whilst hopefully I am passing through this relatively unscathed (time will tell) there are many, many others who have (and will) not.
We are lucky that in this country we are allowed a choice in so many things. In terms of the continuing Covid crisis perhaps more people need to exercise human compassion and a wish for the common good, recognising that at times this requires some restrictions to what we may feel are our individual freedoms. In early years we often speak of supporting children to understand that with rights come responsibilities…if small children can understand this, why can’t so many adults? What part of humanity is it that we lose in our society as we move through the life course?
Surely our responsibilities must be for the good of our communities, not just ourselves or profits? We have only got power over our individual choices…but a plea to those that know me and read this…make a conscious choice rather than be complacent, and think about others alongside thinking of yourself. That’s it…off my soap box and back to sleep.
Be safe folks.